1.Decide what you want
In deciding what you want, there is a realization that you do not already have it. SO if you do not already have it, it must be serving you not to have it.
2.Get pen and paper and write down the below questions.Allow yourself to automatically write until you find the subconscious reason for holding yourself back or holding what it is you want away from yourself.
-How is this serving me not to have ________?
-How am I protecting myself by not creating ___________?